Friday, October 3, 2014

Brand Name or Not?

This is a sensitive topic, and I will try not to sound like a snob because I'm not.

We all like bargains. No one will pay $10 on something that she can get for $7. Reality is a bit more complicated than this simple maths because the $7 piece is most likely not identical to the $10 one. How much you are willing to compromise on the cut, style, and material for this $3 difference is absolutely personal choice. And in this post, I'm going to discuss my personal take on this.

To be honest, premium brand cloths tend to have better cut and material, although that may cost quite a bit. When I splurge on a piece of clothes, I have the following check points on my list:

1 - Does it fit perfectly? I see cut and fit as THE most important factor. An ill fitted piece looks cheap no matter it costs you $20 or $2000. And, not all brands fit the same. On my tiny frame, for instance, Burberry, Gucci and Fendi fit the best, Marni is a wild card, Miu Miu looks weird, and Armani is a total nightmare. Never buy anything just because it is a big name or because it looks perfect on someone else. You've got to know your body.

2 - Will I wear it often? For example, a huge distraction for our ladies is those premium brand gowns in deep discount. If you are not walking down the red carpet in the near future, don't buy them. Splurge on jackets, pencil skirts, and overcoats; you may also go picky on jeans if you wear them on daily basis. Buy items that you can easily style with multiple pieces in your current wardrobe. By doing so, you will get more mileage and lower cost per wear.

3 - Is the style/color classic and timeless? We all try to go with the trend to some extent, but fashion tide changes every three to five years. Save on trendy pieces and splurge on timeless items. In asset allocation, there is the so-called core-satellite theory that allocates the majority of asset to strategic long term core holdings and the minority to tactical portfolio that captures the market trend. Same applies in fashion; building your wardrobe around classic pieces will solve the always-one-piece-short syndrome.

Bottom line: I'm not Paris Hilton, and I did not marry a Russian oil guru. I want to spend my hard-earned money wisely on things I will wear on multiple occasions for years, just like you do.

Enjoy your weekend and happy shopping!

Closeup of this lovely Fendi dress. Hope you can see the delicate knit work. :)

Cashmere dress: Fendi
Silk scarf: Alexander McQueen (similar, similar, similar, similar)
Sunglasses: Karen Walker Super Duper Strength

Thursday, October 2, 2014

White Collar

The more fashion blogs I read, the more convinced I am that fashion does not belong to us white collars. To be fashionable, you have to either dress up as if you were walking down the red carpet or dress down as if you had just stepped out of a homeless shelter. Office is where you find the mediocre: neat hair, light makeup, minimum accessories, and above all, suit, suit, suit! How could this be inspiring? Being professional equates to being lackluster.

All right. I've accepted it long time ago that a proper office outfit is the one that does not outshine your brain. But that doesn't mean that others can't even tell whether you've changed into a new outfit or not. We may not have many options on the silhouette, but still have more or less room playing with colors, patterns and details.

That is why I got this Karl Lagerfeld stretchy blazer. The white stripes on the shoulders and collar add a New England preppy touch to the outfit, and the stretchy material creates a slim polished silhouette. If paired with its matching pants (shown in this outfit), it looks even more sporty and energetic. Here I styled it with a stretchy pencil skirt for a more office appropriate look.


Jacket: Karl Lagerfeld April stretch cotton-blend blazer (review here)
Tee: Abercrombie & Fitch
Skirt: Privee (also seen in this outfit)
Sunglasses: Karen Walker Super Duper Strength
Purse: Louis Vuitton Damier Hampstead PM

Wednesday, October 1, 2014

A Jacket You Can Sleep In

When it comes to draped neckline, very few contemporary brands can compete with Helmut Lang. And this has been confirmed with my new purchase.

I can't express how much I love this Helmut Lang Sonar Wool Shawl Collar Jacket. The minimalist silhouette is both streamlined and fluid. The stretchy material is so soft and comfortable that I can literally sleep in it. It has the coziness of a cardigan and the attitude of a neatly cut jacket. You can easily dress it up for office or dress it down for a casual weekend. If temperature drops and you want more warmth, you can always zip it up and the hidden magnet will make sure that everything is in its right place. Honestly, this is the piece that finally set my mind to fall after a flighty summer.

Here I styled it with a couple of old pieces in my wardrobe that you've seen before and tried to play with different patterns and texture. Heads up: this jacket is so versatile that you may have to put up with many many outfits with it until you have to throw up... :)



Jacket: Helmut Lang Sonar Wool Shawl Collar Jacket (here, here, here, here)   
Tee: JCrew Painter Tee (old, this season)
Lace Skirt: Club Monaco Rowan Skirt (also seen in this post)
Sunglasses: Karen Walker Super Duper Strength
Purse: Louis Vuitton Damier Hampstead PM

Tuesday, September 30, 2014

When East Meets West (4): Fuleen

在Chinatown的东南角,有一片老派的中国餐馆和店铺,因为不在Chinatown中心,生意稍嫌冷清,却往往能找到物超所值的去处。孔子像脚下的富临海鲜,就是一个我认为被under appreciated的粤菜馆。


第一次去富临,是几年前跟着一个香港同事一起去的,那时刚发了年终奖。我们有个同事很迷信,说发奖金以后一定要花出去一部分,回报社会,不然明年的奖金就不漂亮了,所以我们几个人有发了钱就出去大吃一顿的传统。那年去的就是富临,一进去就看见俗艳的大红大金,然后点了一桌子龙虾大蟹,满满地给了25%的小费,算下来才20+刀一个人,服务员见我们出手大方又一直说英语(因为有美国同事在场,而且我跟香港同事说中文也是鸡同鸭讲互相听不懂),送我们出门的时候大鞠躬用日语道别,把我们笑了个半死。不过那顿饭光聊天去了,没太注意饭菜,心里还隐隐觉得吃得太便宜了,怕是会影响第二年的收成,哈哈。

前一阵子偶尔走到那一片,我突然想起这家餐馆,忍不住去吃了一次。。。然后忍不住又吃了一次。。。然后忍不住又吃了一次。。。一个月之内连去三趟,突然领悟到这家老派粤菜馆的好处来。

不知道什么时候起,川菜几乎占领了中国菜的半壁江山,每每中国朋友聚会,不是麻辣烫就是水煮鱼,让人一想起中国菜就是辣!油!咸!全然忘记了中国菜也有清淡宜人讲究食材的粤菜,而且价格也并不比全凭作料撑场面的川菜馆更贵。

富临主要卖海鲜,每天都有很多游水虾游水鱼供客人挑选。点一磅珊瑚虾,简单的白灼一下,或者点一个活龙虾,喀碴喀碴葱姜炒炒,就鲜美极了,不需要多少作料来配伍。在我看来,新鲜的水产原本就有自己微妙的味道和口感,如果用浓浓的作料盖住就可惜了。

除了海鲜,富临还擅长做各种传统粤菜,菜式虽不新奇,做得甚是讲究,连红笕菜都要用切的细细的火腿和鲜香菇来提味,绝不是随便打发人的。

事实上,我今天才发现富临在Michelin上面是被推荐过的,可以说明这家的菜的确做得不错。

除了物美,这家的价钱实在是公道。我周末才去upper west side的蜀留香吃了一顿,随便吃几个菜就将近50刀一个人了,放在富临,这50刀差不多能够两个人的晚饭。

富临最实惠的则是午饭,$5.75外卖或$6(+tip)堂吃,包括一菜一饭一汤,而且菜的份量巨大。我点过一次豉汁小白鲳,以为能有两条小鱼就不错了,打开一看,居然有四条,饭盒塞得满满的。

要说店面,外面的招牌已经褪了色,里面则是很老派的大红大金装饰,店中心还供着福禄寿,的确很是落伍,不过餐馆的卫生等级是A,服务生也很勤快利索,这倒是比很多装修新潮的中餐馆还强些。

这个地方有人说不好找,其实也不难,站在孔子像脚下四处一望,你就能看到富临的招牌了。

Address: 11 Division St., New York, NY 10002
Telephone: 212 941 6888

Monday, September 29, 2014

How to Nail Your Campus Interview?

又到秋季,很快就是各大银行analyst/associate的面试季节。我虽然在业内的资历不深,职位也不高,但是也坐在桌子背后面试过不少应届毕业生了。我来说说面试中需要注意的几个问题,希望能对大家有所帮助。因为我个人经历有限,以下内容主要针对的是金融方面analyst/associate的面试。


先来说说第一印象。经常看见时尚版面有姑娘们问面试的时候应该怎么穿着打扮。说实话,这个只是第一印象的很小一部分。

我发现有的孩子显然是非常紧张,握手的时候手心里满是冷汗,微笑的时候嘴角直抽抽,说话声音发抖。因为是面试junior position,面试者其实也不指望学生娃能有多老练多成熟,但是相比一个温暖踏实的握手和谈笑自如的表情,这样的孩子是吃亏的。

消除紧张的最重要一点是在心理上把面试者放在一个对等的位置上:面试者也不是多高级的人群,也就是个打工的小兵而已,不过是早生了几年,也是一层层面试过来的,而且面试者并不想为难学生娃,甚至HR给我们做training的时候特别强调:面试以后尽量让学生娃高高兴兴的走出房间 -- 这个世界很难算的,谁知道我今天拒了你,你明天是不是就一飞冲天反过来面试我或者成为我的客户呢?谁也不想做恶人断了自己的后路。知道了面试者的心理,你是不是能舒口气呢?

其他的小tip:
  • 穿着以简单大方干净舒适为准则,深色西装为佳,鞋子适于行走,少装饰,头发整齐干净,妆容整洁,不会化淡妆的话,宁可素颜也不要浓妆。外形上规矩不出错就好,不用过于追究西装是蓝色好还是黑色好,头发是披着好还是扎起来好,包包有logo好还是没有logo好,真的,面试者不在乎这些细节。
  • 如果冬天面试,提前到面试地点,好好暖和暖和,可以考虑用热水洗手和用热水杯焐脸焐手,这样即能平复心情,也能避免手心冰冷和面部僵硬的情况发生。
  • 面试的总体印象应该是成熟稳重,不要试图用出格的表现来抓眼球,不要卖萌,不要带小礼物。
  • 校园面试大约30分钟一个人,时间很紧,所以回答问题尽量切中要点,不要过于琐碎。

其次说说面试内容。

应届毕业生面试,课程考察绝对是重头戏。具体什么课程被考核到,主要取决于两个方面:面试职位和个人陈述。如果你面试的工作是金融业的,被考核的问题多半是金融方面的,不太可能被问到什么企业战略啊组织管理啊人事管理啊这些课程。在这个大框架下面,有的面试人有统一的面试科目,有的人则比较随意。我是后者。在我看来,analyst / associate都是公司范围的program,只要你聪明好学,哪方面强都可以在公司内部找到适合的职位。所以我一般会问问学生学过的课程里面最喜欢什么课程,为什么喜欢。如果你喜欢的都不是金融课程,基本上就没有什么好多谈了,至少说明没啥兴趣。如果你回答的是某个金融课程,我就会开始问这门课,从基本常识问起,答得上来的话就再往细往深处问,一直到回答不出来为止。这种情况说明什么呢?第一,你得知道自己在说什么,绝对不能信口胡来,绝对不能在最基本的概念上栽跟头。有的孩子(尤其是本科的孩子),说自己最喜欢fixed income,可是连duration都说不清楚,说自己最喜欢risk management,可是VaR都没听说过,说自己喜欢options,却分不清基本的Greeks。老大,这可是你口中最喜欢的课程哦!你这么虚度光阴,你父母知道吗?你最爱的课程学出了翔,你还号称自己学习能力强,脸皮还能更厚一点吗?每次看到这样的孩子,我就暗自生气。第二,如果一个问题一个问题的追下去,你终于答不出来的,不要紧张,因为这是在试你的深浅,面试者并没有指望你能回答所有的问题,千万不要因此影响了自己的情绪。

对于大部分中国学生来说,最大的问题不在知识点,而在口头陈述。这个当然跟口语水平有关系,但也不是比赛谁的英语更流利,更重要的是内容组织,"说得快"远没有"说得好"重要。说话条理清晰,适当使用buzz word,能用朴素的英语解释专业概念,这是非常重要的。尤其是当回答project,internship,work experience 这类开放式问题的时候,需要回答得不慌不忙有条有理。建议大家平时下点苦工夫,把自己简历上标注的project,internship,work experience 都好好想想,怎么陈述才简单明了,又卖点突出。简历上你写的任何内容都有被问到的可能性,你都要做好被细问的准备。

无论是简历还是现场陈述,不懂装懂夸大吹牛是大忌。我们都知道,某些学生爱吹牛,咱们不要学这个毛病,夸大吹牛的学生一旦被抓现行,肯定就没戏了。我遇到过一个学生,简历上写着在哪里哪里做intern,back test trading strategy,看起来很牛很抓眼球的样子,我就问他,究竟是什么strategy,你怎么做back test,是不是用了什么软件或语言写程序。他答得牛头不对马嘴,最后只好承认他只是做了一些核对数据的工作。我非常厌恶这种情况,既浪费了彼此的时间,也剥夺了他人面试的机会,更重要的是,这种人招进来了恐怕信口胡说,轻则得罪客户,重则招惹官司。其实大家心里都知道,大部分intern的工作都是很初级的,你诚实陈述,能表现出自己学到了东西,就足够了。有个学生简历上写在某个hedge fund的intern经历中有参加PM的会议,我就问他在会议上做什么,其实没有什么希奇的,就是做会议记录而已,会后整理memo发给大家。我接着问他参加会议学到了什么。他能有条有理的说说自己的体会,内容涉及到基本的asset allocation的理论运用,基本的风险和收益的关系,表现出他不仅仅是做记录,而是动了脑筋做了观察的,这就是个很恰当很可信的描述。

面试中还有些天马行空的问题,比如你希望5年以后做什么。这类问题的答案没有对错,关键是表现出务实的态度。老实说,招junior,面试者不仅希望学生基础知识扎实全面,更看重的是"做人老实,做事踏实",因为junior进来的头几年就是奴隶中的奴隶,没有踏实肯干的劲头是很让人头疼的。如果你的回答是"我希望5年以后赚够了钱退休,在加勒比海晒太阳",基本上是自杀行为。即使你是个天才,也得表现出是个愿意埋头干活的天才,须知Mark Zuckerberg 那样的天才也是亲自爬code写Facebook源程序起家的。如果你以为这样说话很幽默,那就错了,面试不是展现幽默的时候,谁知道你是不是开玩笑,任何面试者都不敢冒险推荐一个眼高手低的人。

面试最后,往往是给学生提问的机会。比较保险的问题有:请问您在xx公司或xx职位多久了?感受如何?您对新来的analyst/associate有什么建议?您觉得作为一个analyst/associate能成功的主要因素是什么?。。。总之要表现出对这个公司这个职位的兴趣。不要问太细的问题,比如某某产品(面试你的人不见得是具体做这个产品的人);不要问太敏感的问题,比如公司正在打什么官司;不要问太HR的问题,比如公司怎么保护妇女权益,有多少女性,产假多少。

最后,不要忘记在面试后给面试者写简短的thank-you email,不因为别的,只因为大家都这么做,你不做就显得扎眼了。这封信会直接被删除,多半是不会有人回信的,也不因为别的,因为大家都这么做。其实是挺无聊的,可是大家都这样。

祝大家面试顺利!